jessie-merrow:

thisisthinprivilege:

buzzfeed:

Netflix is facing some serious heat after sharing the trailer for its upcoming series Insatiable created by Lauren Gussis and starring Debby Ryan.

Wow, I’m reblogging @Buzzfeed! Anyway. Obligatory addition that this show is the exemplar of toxic thin privilege.

Note also just how obvious the fat suit is in the first pic. Just….argh.

I betcha $10 “Fatty Patty” only gets enough screen time to treat her like a sideshow and pity-case until Thin Patty is unleashed. Thin Patty is the protagonist, Fatty Patty is fridged to serve as Thin Patty’s character motivation, and thin privilege is Thin Patty’s superpower.

Such lazy writing. Such awful early 90s production style.

I’m going to re-watch “My Mad Fat Diary” as soon as my class ends, because fuck, I need brain soap after this shit. Thanks for that, @Netflix.

-ATL

I kinda hated it…seriously @netflix people really don’t need that kinda shit, acceptance is the key to be free…I mean have her mouth wired because of a punch and then she is super happy because she is finally “pretty” oh I’m sorry if I’m being too aggressive but F off  ???? I can’t believe it…

The background radiation of a fat person’s life. 🙃🙃🙃

I wish I didn’t have to struggle to see myself as beautiful. I wish it wasn’t on ME to unlearn all the toxic self-loathing crap I was taught from birth on. I know it’s good, important work. I know it’s making me stronger. Sometimes…I just wish I didn’t have to do it. I can’t believe how much easier my life would be if I was just conventionally pretty, it’s so arbitrary and pointless. And when you factor in racism, ageism, ableism, fatphobia, etc – it’s just bananas that we make up these dumb rules to keep people down because “We need SOME kind of way to oppress people, or how else will we know who’s WINNING?“ Winning what?? Nobody get outta here alive my guy, there is no “WINNING,” we’re all just slouching towards the grave and if we maybe have some fun and do something useful before we die, that’s the only “WINNING” you get. I know this just comes across as sour grapes from a fugly, and I probably wouldn’t even have spent this much thought on it if the system was constantly rewarding me for being “pretty,” but honestly, objectively: The notion that any kind of genetic marker should determine someone’s intrinsic value as a human is so…white and male and stupid anyway thanks for coming to my TED Talk.

jehovahhthickness:

marauders4evr:

brother-asleep:

tilthat:

TIL of Rosemary Kennedy. Rosemary grew into a rebellious teen so she was given a lobotomy and turned into a vegetable. During the surgery, she was asked to sing “God Bless America”, which the Doctors used to determine how deep they should cut – “when she began to become incoherent, they stopped.”

via ift.tt

You ever read some shit so evil it kinda pumps the brakes on the rest of your day?

Are you fucking ready for this knowledge? To my exasperated followers, give me a break, I haven’t given a good historical rant about her in a few months. Also who the hell uses the word ‘vegetable’ anymore? Yeah, I’m taking over this post. Here we go:

Rosemary Kennedy was JFK’s sister. Joseph Kennedy manipulated his children for years, always wanting them to be the picturesque family to help gain political traction. “Oh, they’re so pretty, oh, they’re so well-behaved, oh, they’re the definition of family ideals” that stuff.

For the most part, the rest of the Kennedy children obliged.

Rosemary?

Rosemary left her boarding school to go on dates.

…Yeah. Yeah, that was it. Rosemary left the boarding school and went on dates. That was her “rebellious nature”. She was a tad bit clumsy, she might have actually had borderline Asperger’s due to her inability to pick up on social cues, and she left her boarding school to go on dates with boys. That last one pissed off Joseph so that, by the time Rosemary was twenty-three (the above cruce post makes it seem like she was a teenager but no, she was twenty-three, I’m not saying this to diminish anything, I’m saying that she was a fully-grown adult and still under her father’s manipulations), he took her to Walter Jackson Freeman without consulting his wife. If you haven’t been privy to any of my rants, Walter Jackson Freeman was a man who used icepicks and knives to cut into people’s heads, chopping off pieces of their brain, a process known as the frontal lobotomy. Icepicks. The things you used to chip ice. Icepicks. Although I’m pretty sure he used a kitchen knife on Rosemary because, you know, that’s so much better. Anywho, not only was she forced into the operation, not only was she forced to sing God Bless America, but she was forced to say The Lord’s Prayer. The. Lord’s. Prayer. Until. She. Couldn’t. Because. They. Paralyzed. Her.

Joseph was so disgusted by her new state (you know, because she was paralyzed) that he sent her to a far-off asylum where she remained for decades. When JFK ran for his presidency and was asked about the whereabouts of his sister, he said that she was away, teaching and/or studying.

Nobody visited Rosemary for decades.

Nobody visited Rosemary for decades.

When her mother finally visited, Rosemary lunged at her in anger and had to be sedated. Her mother’s response? You ready for this? I mean, seriously, are you ready? Like I know what you’re thinking: “Mate, you just went into a rant by memory (yeah, I’m typing this all by memory) about a woman whose brain was hacked up using a butter knife so that she wouldn’t embarrass her family during their political campaign, only for that woman to become paralyzed and institutionalized without visitors for decades, what the fuck can be worse than that?” Seriously though, brace yourselves.

When Rose Kennedy saw her daughter for the first time in decades (after Rosemary was institutionalized as a result of Joseph’s severe medical abuse), when Rose saw her…her first concern…was that she was fat.

Like I said, I wrote this all from memory, but have a bundle of sources confirming everything:

http://people.com/books/untold-story-of-rosemary-kennedy-and-her-disastrous-lobotomy/

https://www.nytimes.com/2015/10/11/books/review/rosemary-the-hidden-kennedy-daughter-by-kate-clifford-larson.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3225863/Rose-Kennedy-obsessed-daughter-Rosemary-s-weight-lobotomy.html

Parents ain’t shit

It’s so horrifying the degree to which women are commanded to be attractive and compliant and obedient, and the degree to which they are tortured and/or murdered when they fail to meet expectations.

yourfatfeministfriend:

goopy-amethyst:

Skinny af girl: *eats a ton*

Everyone: she’s so confident and so comfortable with herself! She also looks super cute, I love girls that are confident like that

Fat girl: *does EXACTLY the same thing*

Everyone: I don’t hate fat people but she really should look for herself more :/ eating that much is not healthy, I bet she is doing it to cover a hole on her life or something

I get this so often. It’s like people forget that you need food to STAY ALIVE! This is a clear example of thin privilege.

fatphobiabusters:

enajcosta:

fatphobiabusters:

fatphobiabusters:

neko-sama–meow:

fatphobiabusters:

fatphobiabusters:

What they say: Our affordable clothing fits women of all shapes and sizes!

What they mean: Our clothing fits women of medium height who weigh between 100 and 125 pounds and have almost no curves. Also you can only afford it if you’re comfortably middle class, upper middle class, or rich.

Anyone else tired of this trend or is it just me?

-Mod Bella

Sometimes even more!

-Mod Bella

Also it only fits cis women.

^^^ Very excellent addition.

-Mod Bella

…. I’m sorry, what was this supposed to accomplish exactly besides making you an asshole who hate trans people, fat people, the poor, and even thin people with curves?

-Mod Bella

non-fat cisgenders SWEAR that our bodies disgust them but then act all shocked and shaken when we try to ya know FIND CLOTHES TO WEAR???? like, pick one bitch do you want me to walk my fat ass around naked or do you want me to cover up???

Wow, that actually made me laugh so hard I snorted. But yeah you’re so right! 😂

-Mod Bella